3 Secrets on How to Interact With In-laws, Third Parties in Marriage

Wife of Pastor Korede Komaiya, senior pastor of the The Master’s Place International, shares 3 secrets on how married couples can deal and interact with in-laws and third parties in their marriage.

Pastor Korede Komaiya who shared the message on his facebook page said “My Baby and Life time partner running 25 years and counting came on board to share deep seated secrets on how to interact with inlaws and third parties in marriage..

Your spouse is from a family like wise you and knowing how to relate and deal with your in-laws is key to the sustainability of your home and the happiness that ensues in it.

According to Pastor Mrs Komaiya, there are three basic keys to sustainability in marriages – wisdom, honour and forgiveness.

1. DEAL WITH THEM IN WISDOM

Wisdom is the principal thing and not the teacher. If you are not wise, you will always have problems with your in-laws. Wisdom is always available to those who understand how to use it. Only the wise will be at peace in marriage, so get understanding.

Build good fences around you and your spouse. Relationships are built through wisdom, not deception. Wisdom is profitable to direct. Be wise not to gang up with your family against your spouse.

2. HONOUR AND BE PATIENT WITH YOUR IN-LAWS

Honour and patience are the attributes that makes a marriage work. Honour will guarantee a long and happy marriage. So develop honour with your in-laws. When dealing with difficult in-laws, you must develop honour and understanding.